She comes to me again.
She shows me directly her phone ... with a message sent to him ... and asks me what i believe:
"You don't want me to be angry with you, because you know that sometimes you behave wrongly.
And you agree with me that I would say all this in bed, as a game, and when you are no longer angry, you can calmly listen without entering into a conflict.
You think that this way I will not collect irritation, and I will not quarrel with you for real and tell you what I think.
You are very cunning."
I've smiled.
Briana always surprised me with her ability ... or maybe i should say ... disability ... of experiencing only and only weird stories.
Her new lover ... totally disliked to hear any complaints coming from her.
I could even say ... that he even hated it.
The truth was that they had a beautiful story together ... but still there were small details they had to have in mind so that they should synchronise their souls for real.
He was different .... than other lovers from her past ... and he adored him for that ... but he was also very difficult.
... and he knew it.
He wanted her badly ... and had a huge hunger of being non stop into her company.
And ... like in any love story ... living into a world dominated so much by duality ... Briana used to say that there were always problems into the paradise.
Somehow ... a paradox ... which only few can really understand.
But ... she was always confessing to me ... and somehow she inspired me into my essays.
Realistically .. I could only smile in front of her ... cause if i would tell her all what i thought ... most probably i would only offend her.
The guy ... was a jerk.
Yes ...
Same like all the other men from this plannet.
... same as me also.
You see ... he was indeed different ... cause knowing he is a jerk ... making her suffer all the time ... but not being allowed by his ego to admit it ... he asked her to tell all the complaints related to him in bed ... like a weird prelude
before the sexual act ... and even punish him in this time.
I could not believe it.
So ... i look at my dear Briana and sarcastically i say .... "You really have a special lover ... He could offer motivational speeches to all of us ... the other jerks from all around the world."
She ... did not liked my answer .... but i could not tell her that she is into a love story with a man ... having the mind of a child of 7 years old.
... which is also acting as a child ... but into an abstract form.
Most probably ... Briana ... love letters she adored him so, so much ... could not brake up with him.
She needed to make his psychological games ... so that at least she could express herself ... about the things she disliked and wanted to fix ... so that they continue to have a real beautiful love story.
But ... somehow ... even if i knew many of her previous lovers... it was maybe the first time when i really saw her happy.
So ... i had to advice her ... to continue all ... even if ... apparently ... it looked like a charade.
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